The tray table is your play space
Everything you bring should fit on a tray table or in a lap. Bring a few wet wipes to clean the tray before play. Choose activities that stay put, since anything that rolls will end up under the seat in front. A shallow tray or a flat lidded box can act as a mini play area that holds small pieces in one place.
Quiet activities for flights and trains
Plan around the phases of the flight
- Boarding and taxi. Keep the most exciting item for this point. Window clings or a sticker scene work well while you wait to take off.
- Takeoff and landing. Tray tables are put away, so plan something for a lap: a book, a small felt board or a conversation game. Many parents offer a drink or snack, since swallowing can ease ear pressure for some children.
- Cruising. This is the time for tray-table activities, card games and drawing.
- The last hour. Kids are often tired. Switch to calm, familiar items and save one small surprise for the final stretch.
Being a good neighbor
Most people on a plane are understanding about children. A few habits help. Choose quiet toys, keep feet away from the seat in front, and step into the aisle for a short walk when the seatbelt sign is off. If your child gets loud, a change of activity is often faster than asking them to be quiet.
Security and seats
Airport security rules affect some toys and craft supplies, such as dough, gels and anything that looks like a tool. Check the current rules with the security agency for your departure airport before you pack. In the United States, that is the Transportation Security Administration, which has a searchable list of items. For guidance on using a car seat on a plane, see our car seat pointers.
Plane activity questions
Should I give my child a new toy for the flight?
A new or forgotten item buys a lot of attention. It does not need to be a big purchase. A fresh sticker sheet or a new pad of paper often works.