Why talking games work so well
Car games that use the view keep kids looking out the window, which many parents find helps with car sickness. They also bring the driver into the fun without taking eyes off the road. And they cost nothing to pack, so you can play them on short errands as well as long drives.
Car games
Most of these need nothing. A few work better with a small notebook and pencil.
Tips for the driver
- Choose games the driver can join by voice alone. Spotting games are fine as long as the driver keeps their attention on the road.
- Set a time limit for each game. Ten or fifteen minutes is often enough, and stopping while it is still fun makes kids ask for it again.
- Have a quiet game ready for when you need to concentrate, such as merging onto a busy highway or driving in rain.
Mixed ages in one car
Older children can be the scorekeepers, the question masters or the map readers, while younger ones play simpler versions. In I spy, a four-year-old can spy colors while a ten-year-old spies letters. In the alphabet game, let the little ones shout any letter they see, and give the older ones the strict A to Z order.
When everyone is tired
Late in the day, swap competitive games for calm ones. Story chain at a whisper, counting stars or streetlights, or a quiet listening game where everyone names sounds they hear can help kids settle. If a child is fighting sleep, a game is not always the answer. Sometimes a soft toy, a blanket and a quiet car are better.
Car game questions
What if my child gets carsick?
Games that keep eyes on the horizon are usually a better choice than reading or drawing. If motion sickness is a regular problem, talk to your child's doctor before a long trip. See pacing a road trip for general comfort tips.
What about audio stories?
Audio stories and music are a great screen-free option. Many public libraries lend audiobooks for free. Pick something the whole car can enjoy.